Is there a shortland to Mr. Perfect? I mean how many times should you date cool guys and just end up with a sigh? Or how many more signs will be added in your list to finally see him standing in front of your eyes? What about when you two meet there would be butterflies chasing around and just know that he’s the one? If only we could tell instantaneously like a flash of neon lights as how we describe then maybe it’ll make more sense. If only then we wouldn’t missed the moment he pass by. Whether we admit or not, we are ought looking for something we never seem to find and wishing someone to bring it on the table. We’ve seen enough movies we fell head over heels and thought it’s possible in a real world where we exist. For some people it happens that way. I call them the 𝗹𝘂𝗰𝗸𝘆 𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀. And for others love is no fairy tale so you can stop daydreaming and giving a damn hard to your heart. But there’s also law of attraction that everything we attract into our lives is a direct response of our thoughts and energies. The process may involve meeting some people with different purposes, so don’t get attached as easy as shelling peas to every person you will get across. Love comes without searching for it, you just wake up one day leaving you feel amazed like the first sunny warm day after a really long and snowy winter. Because great stories can be found in every flip of the page and not by skipping the chapters in between. Nothing makes the future look so rosy with everything all figured out, it’s not how it’s supposed to be.
Foster this confidence that you are happy just by being you no matter what is going on because it mirrors back this great feeling and it attracts more of what you vibes. Mr. Perfect is not in one place or two. He is everywhere finding his way home. And when God’s clock tick, it will be one of the best days that you’ve been waiting for . So get up! Fix yourself and be ready ,he comes as a surprise.💙
Being single is cool and fun until.. All your bestfriends have walked down the aisle and marry some wonderful men and you’re in the phase of finding Mr. Right Now cause you don’t want to be left alone from the social circles, that’s when you play the game on and just hurry to finish the race right there. Seriously! That’s a heavy weight of popular culture. People would always ask beyond what they see , if you aren’t bringing any guy at home it bothers them to pop up the old age question of “w̳h̳y̳ a̳r̳e̳ y̳o̳u̳ s̳t̳i̳l̳l̳ s̳i̳n̳g̳l̳e̳”? I mean why not? It’s not bad,not as bad as what you think. Something that isn’t getting easier because there’s a certain age where you’re expected to be settled. We are all craving for great love, lavish weddings and the happy ever after would be absolutely amazing. But … A confident woman will not only settle for less. Because happiness is not always about being married when everybody does. It’s how you wisely conditioned your mind and heart to be in rhythm of today’s crazy world. Don’t get curled up with how the world feeds you around, it’s not a shorthand to be desperate and be ashamed of. In fact, you’re in the most important relationship of your life. It’s about self discovery and creating the dreams that you always wished of, instead of relying on societal’s notions to determine how should it be like.The more you have to let yourself be with yourself and accept yourself the more you’ll likely attract the person that is right fit for you. We can’t deny the fact that we love to be spoiled or be adored but if we think that we haven’t found him yet, let’s propose a toast to celebrate a sparkling singlehood ladies 🥂.
Chasing 𝘾𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙡𝙡𝙖 days are over. No more waiting for the handsome Prince to bring you a shoe. That doesn’t work anymore. Go get your own classy four-inch gucci stiletto heels. Be self sufficient and financially independent. Don’t play the same rules, be happy rolling solo, go to boozy brunch on weekends, travel as much when times are tough or perfectly perfect, always walk with your heads up high and to never forget how beautiful you are. Eventhough your family and friends matters the choice is still yours to make, it’s your life to live. To have the courage to sit on a romantic beach without wishing there was someone else but you . Learn to embrace loneliness to deeply know yourself and call your shots. Enjoy the moment where you don’t have to answer to anyone about where you’re going, or when you’re going and when will you return, and to whom you will be going with. Just live your life like it’s golden. But the most important thing really is that if you’re hoping to have a happy relationship in the future, you have to learn how to be happy being single first. As cliché as it may sound but this has been one of the longest classic rule. “Love yourself before you let someone else loves you”.
𝗬𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝗮 WOMAN. 𝗬𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 SINGLE.
𝗘𝗻𝗷𝗼𝘆 𝗯𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗯𝗼𝘁𝗵…𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝗼𝗿𝗿𝘆🍁