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๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐——๐—ฎ๐˜†๐Ÿ‚

Is there a shortland to Mr. Perfect? I mean how many times should you date cool guys and just end up with a sigh? Or how many more signs will be added in your list to finally see him standing in front of your eyes? What about when you two meet there would be butterflies chasing around and just know that he’s the one? If only we could tell instantaneously like a flash of neon lights as how we describe then maybe it’ll make more sense. If only then we wouldnโ€™t missed the moment he pass by. Whether we admit or not, we are ought looking for something we never seem to find and wishing someone to bring it on the table. Weโ€™ve seen enough movies we fell head over heels and thought itโ€™s possible in a real world where we exist. For some people it happens that way. I call them the ๐—น๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐˜† ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€. And for others love is no fairy tale so you can stop daydreaming and giving a damn hard to your heart. But there’s also law of attraction that everything we attract into our lives is a direct response of our thoughts and energies. The process may involve meeting some people with different purposes, so donโ€™t get attached as easy as shelling peas to every person you will get across. Love comes without searching for it, you just wake up one day leaving you feel amazed like the first sunny warm day after a really long and snowy winter. Because great stories can be found in every flip of the page and not by skipping the chapters in between. Nothing makes the future look so rosy with everything all figured out, itโ€™s not how itโ€™s supposed to be.

Foster this confidence that you are happy just by being you no matter what is going on because it mirrors back this great feeling and it attracts more of what you vibes. Mr. Perfect is not in one place or two. He is everywhere finding his way home. And when Godโ€™s clock tick, it will be one of the best days that you’ve been waiting for . So get up! Fix yourself and be ready ,he comes as a surprise.๐Ÿ’™

๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—บ ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜’๐˜€ ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฑ

You can laugh out loud and scream loneliness when nobody is around. Who cares?You can fake it all for everyoneโ€™s great show, to satisfy them and if that satisfies you. But how long can you stand with that? Youโ€™re getting older, your life gets shorter, youโ€™ve got one life to live and millions of choices to make, that is huge and if you donโ€™t know what your true needs are youโ€™re gonna be distorted and build lies to cover your guilty heart. You donโ€™t have to a be a slave of broken records in your life because we all have our own struggles, prayers that arenโ€™t answered, dreams that are still dreams, wounds that keeps on bleeding, at some point we have passed the same phase, it’s just that others don’t let these feelings stop them. Donโ€™t protect yourself with another fear, youโ€™re not inadequate you are authentic. Do your innerwork, stop pleasing and appeasing others. Itโ€™s not going to work out. If temporary approval of the society gives you a self-worth, youโ€™re lost. Come back! Don’t waste your life waiting for the freedom when you can set it yourself. Reclaim what has been repressed.-๐Ÿ

๐—ฆ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—บ๐Ÿงก

Being single is cool and fun until.. All your bestfriends have walked down the aisle and marry some wonderful men and youโ€™re in the phase of finding Mr. Right Now cause you donโ€™t want to be left alone from the social circles, thatโ€™s when you play the game on and just hurry to finish the race right there. Seriously! Thatโ€™s a heavy weight of popular culture. People would always ask beyond what they see , if you arenโ€™t bringing any guy at home it bothers them to pop up the old age question of โ€œwฬณhฬณyฬณ aฬณrฬณeฬณ yฬณoฬณuฬณ sฬณtฬณiฬณlฬณlฬณ sฬณiฬณnฬณgฬณlฬณeฬณโ€? I mean why not? Itโ€™s not bad,not as bad as what you think. Something that isnโ€™t getting easier because there’s a certain age where you’re expected to be settled. We are all craving for great love, lavish weddings and the happy ever after would be absolutely amazing. But … A confident woman will not only settle for less. Because happiness is not always about being married when everybody does. Itโ€™s how you wisely conditioned your mind and heart to be in rhythm of todayโ€™s crazy world. Donโ€™t get curled up with how the world feeds you around, itโ€™s not a shorthand to be desperate and be ashamed of. In fact, youโ€™re in the most important relationship of your life. Itโ€™s about  self discovery and creating the dreams that you always wished of, instead of relying on societal’s notions to determine how should it be like.The more you have to let yourself be with yourself and accept yourself the more you’ll likely attract the person that is right fit for you. We can’t deny the fact that we love to be spoiled or be adored but if we think that we haven’t found him yet, let’s propose a toast to celebrate a sparkling singlehood ladies ๐Ÿฅ‚.

Chasing ๐˜พ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™™๐™š๐™ง๐™š๐™ก๐™ก๐™– days are over. No more waiting for the handsome Prince to bring you a shoe. That doesn’t work anymore. Go get your own  classy four-inch gucci stiletto heels. Be self sufficient and financially independent. Don’t play the same rules, be happy rolling solo, go to  boozy brunch on weekends, travel as much when times are tough or perfectly perfect, always walk with your heads up high and to never forget how beautiful you are. Eventhough your family and friends matters the choice is still yours to make, it’s your life to live. To have the courage to sit on a romantic beach without wishing there was someone else but you . Learn to embrace loneliness to deeply know yourself and call your shots. Enjoy the moment where you don’t have to answer to anyone about where you’re going, or when you’re going and when will you return, and to whom you will be going with. Just live your life like it’s golden. But the most important thing really is that if youโ€™re hoping to have a happy relationship in the future, you have to learn how to be happy being single first. As clichรฉ as it may sound but this has been one of the longest classic rule. “Love yourself before you let someone else loves you”.

๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚’๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ WOMAN. ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚’๐—ฟ๐—ฒ SINGLE.
๐—˜๐—ป๐—ท๐—ผ๐˜† ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ต…๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐˜†๐Ÿ