Most of us wants the convenience of transformation. We have goals we’re trying to achieve, but sometimes the person we are right now is not the person we need when we cross the bridge of our dreams. So we need to take a bit of a walk and pace ourselves on this path to success because we haven’t grown enough in ourselves.

While waiting for your time to take off, condition yourself 100 % for a good long run. I’m not just talking about physically but emotionally and spiritually, these are strong foundation to kick in. And still you will fall a lot, I mean a whole lot but never take a “NO” for an answer, and don’t be afraid of no’s. Because the reality of life is that we hear more no’s than yes’s. That’s the harsh truth. And it’s up to you if you will let yourself get affected for every single NO! See we want to grow but we want to stay liked by everyone just like how we share our statuses on facebook or instagram. The reason why a lot of us won’t become who we want is because we’re too attached to who we’ve been. We’re afraid of change, well I do! But I knew it wasn’t working for me any longer. I can live with my routinary stuffs everyday but that doesn’t serve my happiness anymore. I reached the point where I look at myself finding my purpose. I want to give my dream a chance. I want to experience the adventure on this road, whatever is up there. I don’t care. As long as I get there.

So today I challenge you to fight, to work, not to stop here, to believe so heavily in your aspirations that you will not fear the word “NO” but instead you will choose to welcome it with that good feeling. Because any of us can be amazing if we just grab life with both hands.

The world wants the best version of you, the world wants to see what are you capable of, so why are you hiding from the shadow of people you think better than you when you can show the world what you’ve got. I believe good things are available to all of us, we may not equally born with the best things in life but it’s there if we don’t give up, if we have the right attitude and mindset, if we work hard and say yes to chances. We can’t change how we started but we can always choose how we want it to end. Don’t embarrass yourself for giving it a room full of regrets.- One day when you look back.🍁

Yes! You and me. I see you having the same charm and vulnerable soul as the character you played on screen or behind. We’re both afraid of making terrible cultural blunders. Sometimes you get what you deserved, but some are still fighting for their fortune breaks. We fell in love with life from different stories written under the stars and still falling, trying, everyday! You’ve got wounds and I’ve got mine, we’re both beautiful people painted in lovely scars. “Us and we”, a sweet note that you are never too alone. Choose the right cast of people to be part of your episode. Choose wisely. You have a brave heart just like everybody else. I don’t know who you are but I’m pretty sure you’re one damn lucky soul to exist.-🍁

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Don’t ever convince yourself to be with someone just because you’re running out of time and options and settle for less to play safe with your ego. No!Never! Instead, find that feeling where you’re simply happy and love being around the person, it really is that simple.

Love is always a beautiful feeling. And having a healthy and lasting relationship are couples relationship goals. Maybe there’s a perfect relationship out there, maybe there isn’t or maybe there’s the one always in progress. Whatever category you fall preserve your integrity. Don’t forget yourself in the process, take time for yourself to do what you love, what makes you happy and gives you energy — being successful as a couple will only work if each of you is strong and fulfilled as an individual.

1. We’ve got a list we used to follow, but communication is always for real before you hit certain speed bumps. Sharing everything with each other from how’s your day went to how you feel before you sleep will surely survive the long haul. Nobody can beat the two sets of feet walking on the common ground unless the other one is flying, well you can hold their hands instead.- But you talk, foster open communication wih your partner.

2. Not all donuts are sweet, we have those days when it doesn’t taste as good as yesterday but remember relationship is much bigger than the temporary taste you can swallow in seconds. Let the minor things go, bad stuffs happens and it’s normal, let it pass. You don’t wish to sleep with a heavy heart. Don’t you?

3. Don’t take each other’s weaknesses for granted. Encourage your partner to be the best version of themself. Chase all your dreams together. Be nice. Be patient. Hold hands to reach the goal.-“For every successful person, there’s a strong support behind”.

4. Celebrate! Celebrate! When good things happen. Be expressive about it, show your appreciation. Take that hell of a good toast.

5. Trust! It’s very important. Don’t break it. Nobody is perfect but we can all be trustworthy.

6. Be more generous giving compliments, time, surprises and attention. When you started dating you could have said thousands of sweet words, dine out even on your busy schedules, bought each other’s favourite stuffs just to see them happy, what’s stopping you now?

7. Make each other laugh. Having sense of humor is very attractive. Try not to take everything seriously. Life is serious already. It would be awesome to have someone around ready for ice breaker in between the role play.

8. Compromise. Sounds scary maybe but if you truly care about the relationship, it won’t be as hard cause it’s a non-negotiable part of love. It’s a perspective taking that both agreed on.We need the push and pull string to balance things out. We can’t always fight to stand our grounds right but we can meet half way to generate less conflict.

9. Last but definitely not the least don’t forget to say “I love you”. Make it a routine. It means a lot. I mean a whole lot.

I’m going to sit on my bench to tell you three words I seem to hate when abusively used by the same person for the same reason for the 4th time. I’m too generous for three limits, four chances aren’t bad at all. And these are not the worst words ever either but triggers the pattern of my clock to run counter clockwise. When we read our senses become involved. It forms a picture in our head and changes the whole true concept when the words are being used consecutively.

1. Sorry. You can never go wrong with an apology from the heart. We all make mistakes and that’s given, we are way far from perfect but we can also try to avoid them if we’re just paying attention in the small details. 2nd time I’ll give it away without a word, and still feel good after forgiving. 3rd it’s already unpleasant but I have to even with a heavy heart. 4th just forget about me or I will seriously. But after 2 days without talking a brand new record of counting again.

2. Busy. I don’t like this myth that I don’t have time. It’s a lie when too often. Yes we have those days but if your mind is already set to being busy then you’ll never gonna have time. I believe it’s a decision you make. If you are really interested you’ll find a way instead of an excuse, because we can all be busy at some point more on if we choose to. For the people or things that we truly care about “no time” isn’t something that we intend to keep.

3. Maybe. It’s such an awful word. It’s like you don’t know what you’re up to. Destructive. You’re delaying the decision until something better comes up or not. I don’t like to play between a yes or a no, either you will or would not. Well, basically synonymous of “NO”.

So here’s the moody weather everyone calls, an excuse to stay in. Wear your favorite pajamas, dramatically stare out of the window, some gets emotional while others are having a whale of time with a good taste of wine, or hot chocolate maybe, hang out on the couch and indulge in a Netflix marathon movies. Some kind of cozy smaller world. If you’re single and happy this works for you too. If you just broke up yesterday I’m sorry this might be a bit dreary but whether we admit it or not cold nights, dark skies are just perfect metaphor for our souls right now. Sudden memories bring back but still feels lovely even after the not so good patch. We can’t help but to tap our emo side, sooo emo.. that we almost feel like a victim of some sort as it gives us a sense of peace throwing tissues after tissues, if you know what I mean. For couples obviously it’s a season of romance. And leaving hail-fellow-well-met extroverts bored. Hard not to have a heart eyes seeing the scattered droplets of water fall outside the glass window where it allows me to surrender and simply seize the moment, the unique feeling, when my brain functions better, when everything just syncs and more at ease for the rest of the day.

People will always have different thoughts on different kinds of weather. Some people who constantly experience rain would definitely prefer sunny day. But when all you do is sweat and stink, get exhausted by the smallest efforts and have your make-up running down your face within 5 minutes of leaving home, I think it’s a valid reason to be stressed. Not everyone are pluviophile but no matter what weather you have, or where you are ,in places with dry and rainy seasons there are those who would enjoy rainy nights and a cup of coffee just as much as I do.-🍁

Perhaps not in your TOP Bucket list to wander caused by society’s connotation be related to one of the Arab Countries. The truth is Qatar is not a soulless place. In fact, it’s a great spot for sunshine at least before the temperature strikes 41°C and not as cold as snow during winter season. Structures of the buildings brings a unique modern profile to the skyline of the city in the middle of the desert. Still in the development stage where constructions are everywhere and possibly the drawback for some areas.Plenty of huge luxury shopping centers with less people than the usual malls we have back home except weekend of Thursday and Fridays. Local women in traditional dress (abaya) worn with pride on a daily basis showing their fashionable heeled stilettos or stacked heels while men with the usual thawbs ,beards and moustache that emphasizes their strong willed personalities. The population consists higher percentage of expatriates than locals working in different fields with equally reasonable wage based on level of position. Cost of living is way better than Dubai, but if you’re a real clubber and can’t live without the juicy strips of bacon then you have to stash extra bucks to gratify your fancy. Instagramable coffee shops sites, the aroma of roasted beans lingers in your head ,scrummy taste of pastries or muffins even a bite of chocolate cookie and a sip of hot Turkish coffee are definitely worth of a try. Have lived here for 4 years and I could say Qatar is a glam and gem, beautifully flicker on its own that earns a spot on your list as well.

Imagine the brightest night and sky full of stars. Imagine that you are 10-12 years again and you watch the night sky. From all those stars you choose one and make it yours and look for it every night. One night that star becomes real and you start to feel the beauty of life and understand the meaning of living.You can feel the warmth, you can feel the joy and your biggest wish is to share that with the world. 𝙏𝙝𝙖𝙩’𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙖𝙧𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙞𝙢𝙖𝙜𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 a blank space in between the lines of our thoughts creating sanity in our subconscious mind awaken the senses of our souls to something beyond the horizon of reality.🍁