No matter how old you are whether you’re 12 or 45, we are all at the same level when we have a crush or love and the tendency sometimes most of us don’t trust the process that’s when we start to chase, and you know exactly when you’re chasing. So instead of, be yourself , do your own thing and work hard. As Will Smith once said “The right people, the ones who really belong in your life, will come to you and stay”. I truly believe in that. But ofcourse when you’re young chasing it’s fun, chasing is some kind of adventure until one day you get tired and just let go of things the way it’s supposed to and maybe in everything there’s always an exception yet it’s very important knowing what makes you come alive and then go do that.
Yesterday I was browsing on Youtube kept scrolling down until I saw the homily of Father Fidel. I was curious so I opened it. I loved how he delivered the message, the way he talks, he’s fun and I felt the sincerity of his words.” To whatever blessing God has put your name on, it’s yours! So if it’s meant for you, it’s meant for you”. You don’t have really to work your ass hard to keep people in your life, whoever! Friends, romance, strangers, whoever! Because right people doesn’t want to be chased rather they want to stay. Yes, love is very exciting but just remember everyone inevitably disappoints you in some way or another.