If You Fall Inlove, Fall Inlove -🍁


CITRUS

Once you fall inlove  there’s no turning back. It’s a one hell adventure. The sad truth? Sometimes the other heart fall out of love, no matter how we all wish to keep them for the rest of our lives. This isn’t some cliché sayings but it is what it is. Just like the moon we go through phases, but let’s complete the lunar cycle and return to our bright self again. After all we can all smile by habit not by choice. This isn’t some cliché sayings but it is what it is. They say when you meet your one true love then it will last forever. But I don’t believe in that. I don’t think there’s only one true love exist because in every relationship most often we started it with, PERFECT! He/she is the one! Until the day they’re not. Anyone you’re interested in or attracted to could be a potential, the challenging part is how to keep that fire burning and watch both of your feet dancing under the same beat. One morning you wake up, you maybe looking into different directions, starring at the blank wall while the intensity of the fire slowly cooling down and turning into ashes, moving your feet with different music, and yet holding each other hands tightly not to slip away. For me, that’s what true love is. It’s more than a feeling but a commitment to an imperfect people in an imperfect situation, seeking the highest good which often times requires sacrifice. Perfect people are easy to love. But none of us are perfect. Sooner or later we will disappoint each other but true love is a commitment towards imperfect people and still seeing the best of them. When we invest in something, lose everything good before even declaring a bankruptcy . We can let something slide 1,020  times but after that, we can forget about second chances. If you know what I mean. Remember there are two sides to every coin, if you fall inlove, fall inlove! Because in every lunar cycle the moon disappears for a while and it has a dark side too. We commonly hear “never change for someone to satisfy their fancy, I agree on that and I also agree that there’s a certain point in life when we have to change ourselves for the better “not for someone but because we know deep down we have some inner work to do. You and me could have some tangled mess of contradictory things, not to scare anyone but to properly love and not to worry about a thing because love is just very exciting and yet inevitably disappoints in some way or another.


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