𝙀𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙝𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙚𝙣𝙨 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙖 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙤𝙣 and we hear this quite often whether good or bad. But sometimes when it’s too bad and we’re too disappointed it doesn’t work as easy to accept the statement. But let me say it again, everything happens for a reason and when we say everything we cannot pick and choose which is which even if it will hurts us totally and break us apart. God may cause things to happen to get us closer to our destined path which brings us some thoughts lingering our heads and shaken up a bit of our faith and confidence, and that is fine. We’re human, we’re not perfect and we don’t need to be. And yet we also we can remind ourselves to stay positive, incidents happen because life happens but sometimes we’re too busy ignoring the uneasy and uncomfortable phase because we just want to focus on the best ones and forget that there are humps on the road before reaching our destination. When some adversity comes we wonder why this has happened to us. I used to ask myself that too, then I’ll start comparing my situation to others.
𝘽𝙪𝙩 𝙄’𝙫𝙚 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙣𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙬𝙖𝙨 𝙣𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙨𝙪𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙚 𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙮. Life is a continuous learning and some lessons are really hard but no matter what , you’ve got to try your best to get the 100% result. The journey is a long drive and it may require you to make few stops, it’s full of challenges and adventures. And yet at the end of the day if we choose not to give up it defines us. I used to hear this from my mom when we were still young. We always dream a good life like the ones we see from other people, from the movies we watched, celebrities, successful businessmen but never get to thank the ones we have. Those people who live in the street sidewalks or lying down in the hospital bed are dreaming the kind of life we are complaining about. And that sucks, not knowing how blessed we are. How beautiful our life is. There’s so much to be grateful for and gratitude is the key. We should always be thankful not just for the exceeded expectation but simply because we’re here breathing in our own comforts. Don’t practice and master the flow of bitterness in your life cause sooner or later it will drag you down. And that’s not a good payback. No way!
Let’s give the appreciation to ourselves that regardless of the hardship we keep on striving and stand still for what it’s called life and living. That’s why you should love yourself more than anything for always giving you a good fight and winning it.