Being single is cool and fun until.. All your bestfriends have walked down the aisle and marry some wonderful men and you’re in the phase of finding Mr. Right Now cause you don’t want to be left alone from the social circles, that’s when you play the game on and just hurry to finish the race right there. Seriously! That’s a heavy weight of popular culture. People would always ask beyond what they see , if you aren’t bringing any guy at home it bothers them to pop up the old age question of “w̳h̳y̳ a̳r̳e̳ y̳o̳u̳ s̳t̳i̳l̳l̳ s̳i̳n̳g̳l̳e̳”? I mean why not? It’s not bad,not as bad as what you think. Something that isn’t getting easier because there’s a certain age where you’re expected to be settled. We are all craving for great love, lavish weddings and the happy ever after would be absolutely amazing. But … A confident woman will not only settle for less. Because happiness is not always about being married when everybody does. It’s how you wisely conditioned your mind and heart to be in rhythm of today’s crazy world. Don’t get curled up with how the world feeds you around, it’s not a shorthand to be desperate and be ashamed of. In fact, you’re in the most important relationship of your life. It’s about self discovery and creating the dreams that you always wished of, instead of relying on societal’s notions to determine how should it be like.The more you have to let yourself be with yourself and accept yourself the more you’ll likely attract the person that is right fit for you. We can’t deny the fact that we love to be spoiled or be adored but if we think that we haven’t found him yet, let’s propose a toast to celebrate a sparkling singlehood ladies 🥂.
Chasing 𝘾𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙡𝙡𝙖 days are over. No more waiting for the handsome Prince to bring you a shoe. That doesn’t work anymore. Go get your own classy four-inch gucci stiletto heels. Be self sufficient and financially independent. Don’t play the same rules, be happy rolling solo, go to boozy brunch on weekends, travel as much when times are tough or perfectly perfect, always walk with your heads up high and to never forget how beautiful you are. Eventhough your family and friends matters the choice is still yours to make, it’s your life to live. To have the courage to sit on a romantic beach without wishing there was someone else but you . Learn to embrace loneliness to deeply know yourself and call your shots. Enjoy the moment where you don’t have to answer to anyone about where you’re going, or when you’re going and when will you return, and to whom you will be going with. Just live your life like it’s golden. But the most important thing really is that if you’re hoping to have a happy relationship in the future, you have to learn how to be happy being single first. As cliché as it may sound but this has been one of the longest classic rule. “Love yourself before you let someone else loves you”.
𝗬𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝗮 WOMAN. 𝗬𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 SINGLE.
𝗘𝗻𝗷𝗼𝘆 𝗯𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗯𝗼𝘁𝗵…𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝗼𝗿𝗿𝘆🍁